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{/IQ VS EQ'}
Tuesday, September 29, 2015 @ Reina's dairy



This topic has been rather around for some time.
Which is more important in life, IQ VS EQ.
I will start off this official post with the definition 
(YES, just type into google search bar)

IQ:
a number representing a person's reasoning ability (measured using problem-solving tests) as compared to the statistical norm or average for their age.

EQ:
For most people, emotional intelligence (EQ) is more important than one's intelligence (IQ) in attaining success in their lives and careers. As individuals our success and the success of the profession today depend on our ability to read other people's signals and react appropriately to them.


Personally, I am more emotionally inclined
(partially cause I am a lady)
and test online might be inaccurate, but I gave it a go. 
I will start with the EQ tests followed by the IQ test.

Important article:
 http://www.ted.com/conversations/21687/emotional_intelligence_vs_inte.html


People with high EQs tend to have five qualities or competencies in common:
1.     Optimism -- ability to anticipate the best possible outcome of events or actions
2.     Self-Awareness -- knowledge of current emotional state, strengths and weaknesses
3.     Empathy -- understanding of others' points of view and decision-making processes
4.     Impulse Control -- ability to mitigate an urge to act (as in: think first and act later)
5.     Reality Testing -- ability to see things as they are, not as we want them to be

To me,
high IQ is necessary and important,
however,
What I really want to tell you that, no matter how high your IQ is, if you dont have EQ, you cant really train for it, and you lose out.Worse still, you cannot relate to anyone with you got low EQ (insensitive brats)
Be more sensitive to things going on around you.  

HIGH IQ DOESNT BRING YOU FAR, 
IT JUST BRING YOU TO WHERE YOU WANT TO GO, 
AFTER THAT THE LIFE TEST; 
ITS EQ. 

THE WORLD DOES NOT REVOLVE AROUND YOU.


The tests:
True enough, its proven,
I have done two test on EQ,

1)  http://psychology.about.com/library/quiz/bl_eq_quiz.htm

How Did You Score?
Your results indicate a high score on emotional intelligence.

What Does Your Score Mean?
People who score high on emotional intelligence tend to be skilled at interpreting, understanding, and acting upon emotions. They are adept at dealing with social or emotional conflicts, expressing their feelings, and dealing with emotional situations. 

It's important to remember that no matter how good your score is, there is always room to improve your emotional intelligence. Consider areas where you are not as strong and think of ways that you can learn and grow. Take stock of your strong points and find ways to continue to develop and apply these skills.

2) http://www.ihhp.com/free-eq-quiz/
Good EQ



Congratulations! You have high emotional intelligence.This is good news! EQ counts for twice as much as IQ and technical skills combined in determining who will be a star performer. Your level of EQ likely has been and will be a driver of your high performance under pressure for years to come. Areas to work on: While you are doing well, don’t forget to take time out of your busy day-to-day activities to stop and reflect on what brings you the greatest meaning in your life. If we fail to do this on a regular basis, we risk becoming tranquilized by the trivial; sedated by the small details. Yes, deadlines need to be met and goals achieved. But if we are working toward goals that are not in alignment with our key values and greater purpose, we face becoming frustrated and cynical when we face pressure – losing sight of the reason we are doing ‘all of this’ in the first place!

As William James said: “I have no doubt whatsoever that most people live, whether physically, intellectually, or morally, in a very restricted circle of their potential being. They make use of a very small portion of their possible consciousness… much like a man who, out of his whole body organism, should get into the habit of using and moving only his little finger… We all have reservoirs of life to draw upon, of which we do not dream.”

I also tried two IQ tests:
I do have relatively high IQ,
the scores below are relatively similar
I could be just witty and quick minded.


1)http://www.iq-test.com/free-iq-test/
Based on your performance on the IQ test we estimate your IQ score to be:

Your IQ score lies within a range of 133 up to 149, or it may be even higher!

You have an IQ of 134

IQ Test for Free




{/Let's be positive.'}
Wednesday, September 23, 2015 @ Reina's dairy

Apparently, I started working full time as of August. 
True enough, office job isnt for me.

Recently, I have been in to a project by NYC/YCS and my group is called 
Selfless Individuals in Action.
Please support and visit our page on facebook, 
pledge yourself for a minimum of 6 months 
to do something for the community.
 Out of the 6 months, we require some commitments and involvement 
to get to know the families better.   
(every fortnightly, not demanding right?) .
Help families of the incarcerated and for the Jurong community.
 Project submission is on 5 October and we are about 70 % done. 
It has really been a tiring journey, and I really feel like quitting.
 After all,  
"Inside Out" taught me something valuable.
"To be able to feel happy, you need sadness."
This reminds me of my OBS in sec4, 
You will be thankful for the Sun, when you meet Rain.
You will be thankful for joy when you have sadness.
Since quitting is not a way out, 
SUCK THUMB AND FINISH CLEANING THOSE ARSES OF OTHERS.

talking about the HAZE
The west have been about PSI 100 consistently, and I have a mini haze in my own house.
& pushing all the blame to the haze, of course.
 I have been on-off sick for about 3 weeks.
....so....
http://food4littleones.blogspot.sg/2013/06/combat-haze.html

&now, I cant see shit outside my house, neither can I smell anything cause I am having flu.
I need to take care of myself and so you too
Please take care of yourself, esp if you stay in Indonesia.


BYE~